Man to lead, woman to follow

            What do man look for in woman? I would argue that the traits that are desirable in a wife are fairly different from those that are desirable in a girlfriend. This has little to do with woman. If anything, it has more to do with man evolving from enjoying their swinging bachelor days to having the desire to settle down.

            Admittedly, this evolution is called maturity. Along with this maturity comes the realization that while independence is always desirable in a woman, what is even more desirable is her understanding that her man is the boss in the relationship. But in an era of feminists hogging the airwaves and political correctness censoring us, man are walking on eggshells and fail to rationalize this to the world.

            Firstly, fight the power. Since the dawn of history, mankind has had to fight to get everything food, shelter and companionship. For the most part, man are compertitive and combative by nature. We compete to get what we want and will fight for it no matter what the cost.

            Where we usually differ from woman is that we tend to let our rationale lead the way,hence when the cost far surpasses what we want and will fight for it no matter what the cost.

             Secondly, empire building. Man are imperialistic. We want to expand our reach, be it in business or social realms. While we need strong ally, the last thing we need is to have to wage a war on the domestic front as well.

             Lastly, man should has principle of specialization. The same way that a company needs one CEO and a team has one captaion, a couple needs just one boss. If the man focuses on one thing and the woman on another, then together they can acccomplish more. Again, this is not to imply that a woman's role is not important. But she needs to know what her role is and not get out of line.
The most efficient society is one that puts each person in the job to which they are best suited.